As the Year Turns: A Reflection

As the year gently winds down, I find myself immersed in a period of reflection, a serene pause amidst life’s constant motion. This ritual, as familiar as the changing seasons, allows me to ponder the intricate tapestry of the past twelve months, weaving together both trials and triumphs.

This year, like a river, has flowed through varied landscapes – moments of joy and times of challenge. In these quiet hours, as I look back, a profound sense of gratitude fills me. It’s a feeling that extends beyond the obvious peaks of joy and success; it’s an appreciation for the entire journey.

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Perfectly Imperfect

As I type these words on my screen, the soft glow illuminating the quiet of my room, I am transported back to a year ago, to the 18th of August, 2022. It was the day you sent me Declan J Donovan’s “Perfectly Imperfect,” a melody that has since been the unsung backdrop of our love.

Each lyric of that song is a reflection of our story – beautifully flawed, yet profoundly true. You, my love, are the last crack on the pavement, embodying resilience in our world of contrasts. Our beliefs, as divergent as they are, create a unique harmony, a testament to the love that thrives in our differences.

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The Unofficial Guide to Enjoying Slower Office Days

As the office quiets down with many colleagues out on leave, I find myself navigating the unfamiliar waters of idleness. The usual hustle and bustle have simmered down, leaving behind a sea of time that I’m not used to having at work.

Initially, the stillness felt more eerie than peaceful, like being the last person standing in a game of musical chairs. But then, inspiration struck. Why not use this time in a way that’s a tad unconventional (and, between us, maybe not entirely what one might call ‘professional’)?

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Jatuh Cinta Seperti di Film Film (Falling in Love Like in Movies)

Ever stumbled upon a film that warms your smile like a cozy blanket on a rainy day, while gently coaxing out those delightful little chuckles? If not, “Falling in Love Like in Movies” is your ticket to this unique experience. This isn’t a film that shakes the rafters with roaring comedy, but one that serves up humor as comforting as your morning coffee, complete with those occasional, heartwarming chuckles.

Our tale kicks off in a supermarket (talk about a high-budget set! – or that’s what the producer says!). This is where Bagus, our screenwriter, has a serendipitous reunion with Hana, his high school sweetheart. Their meeting isn’t set to a backdrop of dramatic soundtracks, but it’s real and touching – like accidentally bumping into someone at the checkout line. This isn’t a flashback to grand, opulent past times but rather, a delightful little surprise you’d find, akin to discovering the last piece of your favorite snack on the shelf.

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From Excuse to Action

There’s a notion I’ve been mulling over recently – the idea that we are merely products of our genetics, bound to the phrase “it’s just the way I am.” It’s a belief that, while comforting in its absolution from responsibility, sells short the extraordinary capacity we have for change and growth.

The truth is, each of us has the power to rewrite our stories, to reshape our paths. It’s not our genetic makeup that primarily defines our journey; it’s our habits, our actions, and our repeated behaviors. These are the sculptors of our destiny, the architects of our future selves.

Think of the brain as a malleable landscape, with neural pathways that can be rewired and reformed through practice and persistence. Every action we take, every habit we cultivate, is like a stroke of the brush on this canvas, gradually painting the picture of who we become.

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